Simply put, there is nothing like His Match for Me anywhere else on the internet! Here's what makes His Match for Me different:
More faith-based profile content than any other dating site on the web.
The only site that allows instant 30 second webcam profile introductions.
The first and only site that provides virtual webcam dates. (Meet online and avoid potential surprises of that first date!)
A compatibility test that includes Biblically-based faith and convictions questions.
Not just 1, but 2 lists (Wow! and Friends) to keep track of members!
The only site that allows you to choose whether to receive matches based on your match preferences or based on compatibility.
Set your background wallpaper to your style and upload an mp3 to play automatically when your profile is viewed.
Create photo albums, upload your favorite audio files, even upload those video clips that will show us your awesome personality!
Tired of boring looking sites? HMFM is the nicest looking site you will ever find. So enjoy the view!
There are many other features, such as mail un-send (when you want to take back that hasty message before it’s read), and a Details Page, where you can store and print detailed information about that potential mate.
The most important feature of His Match for Me is what REALLY matters – This is a place of committed Christians who desire a Christ-centered relationship. Yes, there are a lot of fish in the sea, but wouldn't you rather look for your life partner within a community of sincere believers?
His Match for Me is the ideal community for finding the authentic Christ follower you are looking for. That’s what His Match for Me is all about! In the end, we pray that you will be able to say -- "This is the place where I found HIS match for me!"
How Do I Get Matches?
After you register, you will begin receiving matches automatically. These matches will be displayed on your Match Tab and delivered to your private email address. Matches are initially based on your Ideal Match criteria. However, you may at any time change your matches to be based on the Compatibility Indicator. This option is located on your Account Page.
At the time of registration, your default match percentage will be 95%. That means that anyone scoring a match of 95% or more will be matched to you. You can change this percentage any time, on your Account Page. Lowering your match percentage number qualifies more members to be matched to you, so you will receive more matches. Of course, you can also receive more matches by broadening your age preference and/or location preference on your Ideal Match Page.
Who Created His Match for Me?
His Match for Me was created by born-again Christians with an extensive background in ministry, relationship counseling, and business.
The vision for His Match for Me was born out of a need for a new, God honoring approach to internet dating. For way too long, the evil one has had free run of the internet dating scene, where fraud, lying, cheating and immorality have become a common element, even on so called "Christian" sites! We felt it was time to create a site with a fresh, new approach -- faith-based profiles, faith-based compatibility testing, and cutting edge technologies.
We are excited to be able to provide His Match for Me to the Christian singles community. Our prayer is that God will use this site to bring people together in relationships that are God-honoring and Christ-centered.
We believe you are here for a reason. This wasn't an accident. We encourage you to dig in to the site, and take your time. Jesus said "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you." That's a powerful principal for us to act on. If we love Him first, He WILL give us the desires of our heart!
How Long Will It Take to Find My Match?
"I want my match! Now!"
Yes, we know how you feel. Sometimes, living single can be a nightmare of loneliness. We've got to find a partner – quick! So we hop from one dating site to another, performing search after search, spending literally hundreds of hours setting up our profiles, looking, emailing, and maybe starting something. But it only results in a never ending story of frustration and disappointment. Then we're right back where we started. We're getting nowhere! Why? What is going on here?
The problem may be that we are trying to rush the process. It may be that God is delaying that special connection, in order to fully prepare you for a mate. My friend, God wants so much to bring you His special match for you, but He doesn't want it to fail. He wants this to be your last first date, your last first kiss, and your last marriage!
Here are five important steps you can take to prepare yourself for your life partner, to help ensure success!
Be sure you have had adequate time to heal from your previous relationships. (This is the most ignored issue, and creates the most problems.) Take time to heal first, before hurting someone else.
Allow God to heal you from any serious issues, such as addictions, emotional illness, or sexual sin. These will destroy your new relationship right out of the gate. Don’t live in denial. Get into counseling and deal with it now. You want to deliver a healthy partner to your mate!
Live a balanced life. Plug into your church, join a small group, develop lots of same sex friendships, and use your spiritual gifts to serve.
Discover your purpose. Find out where God wants you to go and how He wants to use your talents, so that you can find a partner with a similar direction. That will be VERY important to the process.
Don’t get in a hurry. Don't act in desperation. If you live a balanced life, you won't feel desperate to find a mate. You'll be busy! This will make you much more likely to select wisely.
If, after reading these five points, you feel you’re ready to start looking, that's awesome! We encourage you to fill out all the sections on the site, including the Compatibility Indicator. Be sure to upload your best photos, record a 30 second video with your webcam, and get to know all the features on the site.
We are praying for you each and every day, that God will guide you in this process. In His time, God WILL bring you His match for you!